[dagit] Upgrade apollo
Bump version for apollo to get around node version issues with transitive dependency @apollo/federation.
Also bump @apollo/client while I'm at it.
Test Plan: Run Dagit, sanity check that queries are working on the client. Run yarn generate-types to sanity check codegen.
Reviewers: alangenfeld, dgibson, bengotow
Reviewed By: dgibson
Differential Revision: https://dagster.phacility.com/D7787