Listen/Notify skeleton for MySQL, as well as schema changes + BK checks to ensure future MySQL compatability
Note also that the listen/notify logic is not finished yet; a cursor seems to be the best way to go about the polling logic but having trouble finding the correct info in SQLAlchemy documentation.
Still TODO: cursor vs. query modification in SQL query, alembic migrations stuff, as well as testing & perf testing
Depends on https://dagster.phacility.com/D5710